Feeling lost, alone and helpless, and subsequent crying and upset, can be part of the Spiritual Journey. Many feelings will surface but they are not the guide: The eternal Spirit is. Crossing over is difficult, dry, alone and confusing, but you are being prepared to leave what is and enter what will be. While there is movement forward, no place is going to be fitting for a long time. Home isn’t where you want to be, work isn’t where you want to be, social interaction isn’t where you want to be. There’s no place on earth that will satisfy the lonely heart. The long, slow process of surrender enables the believer to enter their eternal home. To finally belong in a spiritual environment that’s satisfying is where safety, security and happiness reside.